I learened that expectation and projection is nothing to do with love, lke I don’t love them, I just want them to do and be who I want them to be.
Kaya misalnya aku tuh nggak tau kenapa sangat amat teramat obsess gitu sama seseorang, dan Ketika aku telaah lebih dalam ternyata karna ada beberapa sidaft dia yang mengingatkan aku sama Bapakku, dan aku mau dia bisa menjadi pengganti figure ayah dihidupku. I'm projecting what I want towards him. And that’s not healty for both of us, beacsue him is him, and he cant be someone I knew.
That’s literally it!
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